so much has happened over the last 2 weeks but lets start with whats on my mind - family. the definition of family is pretty much summed up as: a group of people considered close to you, who you care for, and somewhat care for you in return. a group of people could be anyone. for me, my friends at uni as well as my housemates were like a second family for me, they are the people i spent my time with, and they are the people that i went to when i needed something, and yes, they also did the same so it was cool. now i'm back home, with my family i see that ... ok.. well, i'm no longer the centre of attention anymore.. yeah u.u; my little sister is getting all the attention, and perhaps i'm finding it a little different being just another household.... adult. maybe i'm being a little funny about this because i didn't get the same benefits as my sister is getting? maybe i'm just such a strong believer of justice, equality and fairness that i'm finding the extra love given to my little sister.. perhaps unnecessary, or quite unfair.. i dunno.. its complicated.
now, the family i had at uni consisted of two groups of lovely ladies who i really enjoyed hanging around with. not only were they funny, but also complemented my style of living: no late parties, or alcohol, had strong judgement and common sense of right and wrong, and were great listeners. so, it puzzles me when one of these friends, decided to end such a strong friendship using the oldest and dirtiest trick in the book - perhaps its an english only book for i've never ever heard of this behavior from anyone else. ironically, the girl in question herself had told me this dirty trick, or agenda if you could call it as advice for how to end a friendship. it sucks recalling the situation so i'll keep it short, if you know what i'm talking about then you know, if you don't, then don't ask. its a betrayal in the most horrible way imagined, and coming from a good friend of mine - you could imagine how betrayed i felt after that day. regardless, if someone went to all this trouble to lose a friendship, perhaps its for the best for both of us that i no longer speak to them for i would never do such a thing and would expect nothing less of a friend. life's unexpected surprises come in all shapes and forms, i guess this was just another one of those things that will go down as crap history to forgive and forget!
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